Best Couples Toys: How to Choose the Right One for You
The couples toy aisle has the same problem as the lube wall: loads of options, barely any explanation of what any of them are actually for. Wearables, app controlled eggs, rings, wands, dual stimulation vibrators, strapless strap ons, it all blurs together, so people either buy the most talked about one or avoid the whole category out of confusion.
Here's the short version: the right couples toy depends on how you want to use it together. Worn during sex, used before it, controlled from across the room or across the country, each of those points to a different type. Once you know which moment you're shopping for, the choice gets a lot easier.
This guide walks through every couples toy currently in stock at Lormi, grouped by what each one is actually good for, with real prices so there are no surprises at checkout.
Wearable vibrators, worn during sex or out and about
These are small, internally worn vibrators controlled by a partner, either through an app or a physical remote. They're built to stay in place during penetrative sex or to be worn out and about, with control handed to your partner for a bit of anticipation.
Lush 3 Lovense Wearable Egg Vibrator, £139.99
The toy that made app controlled wearables mainstream. Sits internally with an external tail that stays put, so it works handed over to a partner or streamed live if that's your thing.
Lush 4 Mini Lovense Vibrating Egg, £139.99
A smaller bodied version of the Lush shape, built to hug the G spot while staying just as app friendly as the original.
We Vibe Jive 2 Wearable Egg Vibrator, £129.99
Deep, rumbly vibration rather than a buzzy one, aimed squarely at the G spot, and quiet enough to wear discreetly.
We Vibe Jive Lite Wearable Love Egg Vibrator, £89.99
A simpler, cheaper entry into wearable eggs. No app layer to learn, just a flexible tail holding it in place for hands free wear.
Lush Anal Lovense Vibrating Butt Plug, £149.99
The same app controlled idea as the Lush, built instead as a slim, flared base butt plug for couples who want anal play in the mix rather than vaginal wear.
Dual stimulation vibrators for penetrative sex
These sit differently to a wearable: they're worn by one partner during penetrative sex and designed to stimulate both people at once rather than just one. Most are app or remote controlled too, so either partner can adjust the settings mid session.
We Vibe Chorus Pro Couple Vibrator, £189.99
We Vibe's flagship couples toy, pairing clitoral and G spot stimulation through synced pulses rather than two vibrations working independently of each other.
We Vibe Sync O Couples Vibrator, £139.99
Held in place with an O shaped internal loop rather than a rigid shaft, so it stays comfortable through movement instead of shifting out of place.
Satisfyer Pro 4 Couple's Vibrator, £54.99
Pairs this with Satisfyer's own Pleasure Air suction technology rather than plain vibration alone, and comes in comfortably under £60. If that style of stimulation works for you, it's worth browsing the full Satisfyer clitoral toys range, which includes the Pro and Curvy series in the same air pulse format.
Vibrating cock rings
A ring fitted at the base that adds vibration for both partners during sex, often the easiest and cheapest way into couples toys. Some are simple and non vibrating, others add motors and app control. Good starting point if you want something low commitment before spending more.
Fifty Shades of Grey Again and Again Adjustable Cock Ring, £9.99
The cheapest way into this whole category. A slide to fit ring with a toggle adjustment rather than a fixed size, and no motor to worry about charging.
ROMP Juke Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring, £24.99
Stretchy silicone with a shaped vibrating stimulator built in, and rechargeable rather than battery powered, so it earns its place over the cheapest rings on the shelf.
Happy Rabbit Rabbit Cock Ring, £34.99
A single stretchy ring with flexible bunny ears aimed at the clitoris during penetrative sex. The simpler of the two Happy Rabbit rings in this range.
Happy Rabbit Stimulating Rabbit Cock Ring, £54.99
The step up version, with two stretchy loops rather than one (shaft and testicles both held) alongside the same vibrating ears, for a firmer fit and a bit more sensation on both sides.
Fun Factory NOS Classic Vibrating Cock Ring, £49.99
Flexible extensions reach toward the clitoris while the ring itself keeps going for both partners, from one of the more established names in the toy world.
Browse the full cock ring range if none of the four above are quite what you're picturing.
Strapless strap ons
A different category entirely, and worth knowing exists even if you've never shopped for one before. No harness, no straps. One end goes inside the wearer, the other end is what gets used with a partner, so both people get sensation from the same toy.
Happy Rabbit Vibrating Strapless Strap On, £79.99
A longer shaft goes to the receiving partner while a contoured internal end stimulates the wearer, built specifically for couples who want penetration without a harness in the mix.
Shared foreplay: rabbit vibrators and massage wands
Not every couples toy is built for during sex. Rabbit style vibrators and massage wands are usually brought in beforehand, taking turns or using them together as part of foreplay rather than penetrative play.
Lovense Velvo Rabbit Vibrator with Rotating Beads, £149.99
Rolling beads and a rotating head add movement that plain vibration cannot replicate. One of the more distinctive rabbit vibrators in the range for exactly that reason.
Lovense Osci 3 Warming Rabbit Vibrator, £139.99
Pairs an oscillating, rolling motion at the G spot with warming, so it feels closer to body temperature than most silicone toys manage straight out of the box.
Fifty Shades of Grey Drive Me Crazy Glass Massage Wand, £29.99
A double ended glass wand with a different sized bulb at each end, so you get two distinct shapes to try in one toy, plus the option to warm or cool it before use.
Browse the full rabbit vibrator range for more of this style.
Something completely different: making a keepsake together
Not every couples product in this collection is a vibrator. Clone A Willy lets you cast a real silicone replica of yourself or a partner, which is less about tonight and more about making something you both find funny or genuinely want to keep.
Clone-A-Willy Penis Moulding Kit, £39.99
Everything needed to cast a same size, same shape silicone replica in one kit, available in several colours. A genuinely different gift idea for a couple who has bought every toy already.
Clone-A-Willy Moulding Powder Refill Bag (90g), £12.99
A refill for the kit above, worth keeping in mind if your first attempt does not come out quite right the first time. It happens more often than you'd think.
Which one is actually right for you
If you're completely new to toys as a couple, start simple. A non vibrating or basic vibrating ring is the lowest pressure entry point, cheap enough that it doesn't feel like a big decision, and easy to bring in without changing much about how you already have sex.
If you want to add sensation during penetrative sex without changing anything else, a vibrating ring or a dual stimulation vibrator like the We Vibe Chorus Pro or Sync O is built exactly for this. Both are worn during sex rather than instead of it.
If you want penetration without a harness, the Happy Rabbit strapless strap on is the one option built specifically for that, stimulating both partners from the same toy.
If distance or anticipation is part of the appeal, look for app control specifically, not just a physical remote. Lovense and We Vibe both build toys that connect over the internet, so a partner can be in another room or another country and still be in control.
If you want something for foreplay rather than during sex itself, a rabbit vibrator or massage wand gives you more to work with before moving on to anything else, and takes the pressure off needing a toy that does everything at once.
If discretion matters, wearables worn internally are the quietest option in public settings, since nothing is visible. App controlled ones also tend to run quieter than remote controlled versions, which matters more than people expect.
If you want a genuinely different kind of couples experience, one that has nothing to do with tonight specifically, the Clone A Willy kit is worth a look purely for how different it is from everything else on this page.
A few things worth knowing before you buy
Use a body safe lubricant alongside any toy, particularly silicone toys, since silicone lubricant will degrade silicone material over time. A water based lube is the safest match for almost any toy material.
Clean toys properly after use, ideally with a dedicated toy cleaner rather than just water, especially for anything worn internally or shared between partners.
Talk about it before you buy, not just after. The toys that get used again and again are usually the ones both partners actually wanted, rather than one partner surprising the other. A quick conversation about what you're both curious about saves you buying something that ends up in a drawer.
Start on the lowest setting, particularly with anything new to both of you. Most toys have far more intensity available than you'll want on a first try, and it's much easier to increase than to back off once something feels like too much.
Common questions
Do we need the app, or does a remote work just as well?
A physical remote is fine for being in the same room, and tends to be simpler to set up. The app matters mainly for control from a distance, or if you want to save custom vibration patterns.
Are these toys only for penetrative sex?
No. Rings, rabbit vibrators, and wands are just as often used during foreplay, solo play, or as a starting point before anything else. Nothing here requires a specific type of sex to be worth owning.
Is it awkward to bring a toy into the bedroom for the first time?
It can feel that way before the conversation happens, but tends to matter far less once it's actually brought up. Framing it as something to try together, rather than something missing, usually takes the pressure off.
How loud are these toys really?
It varies a lot by model, but app controlled and internally worn options are generally the quietest. If discretion is a priority, that's the detail worth checking before you buy rather than after.
What is a strapless strap on, and is it hard to use?
It is a toy with no harness, held in place internally by the wearer while the other end is used with a partner. It takes a bit more practice to keep in place than a harnessed strap on, but plenty of couples prefer it for exactly that reason once they get the hang of it.
The bottom line
There isn't one best couples toy, the same way there isn't one best lubricant. A ring if you want something simple and affordable to start with, a dual stimulation vibrator if you want to add sensation during sex itself, a strapless strap on if penetration without a harness is the goal, a wearable if distance or anticipation is part of the appeal, and a wand or rabbit vibrator if foreplay is where you want to spend more time.
The right one is whichever matches how you and your partner actually want to use it, not whichever has the most features on the box. Ready to find yours? Browse our full couples range.
