Bondage Gear: The Full Lormi Guide
Bondage gear covers a wider range of products than most people expect walking in, restraints, impact toys, sensory deprivation, and clamps all sit under the same umbrella but do genuinely different jobs. Here is everything we stock, organised by what it actually does, plus how to start without diving straight into the deep end.
Restraints and cuffs
Sweet Anticipation Reversible Faux Leather Wrist Cuffs, £29.99
Soft, padded restraint in a red and black faux leather finish, built for a comfortable hold rather than the harsher feel of metal cuffs. A sensible first restraint if you have not tried bondage gear before.
Sweet Anticipation Ankle Cuffs, £49.99
Softly padded ankle cuffs with a connecting chain, matching the wrist cuffs above if you want a full matching restraint set rather than mixing pieces.
Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit, £59.99
Turns any bed into a secure play space without needing a headboard or frame to hook onto, straps slide under the mattress and adjust to fit. The most practical single purchase if you do not already own bed furniture built for restraint and do not want to.
Impact play
Bound to You Faux Leather Flogger, £34.99
Versatile enough for everything from a light, teasing trail to a firmer, more confident swing, with soft faux leather fronds that suit beginners and more experienced players alike.
Please Sir Flogger, £12.99
A smaller, more compact flogger built for controlled impact, with 48 metallic silver fronds that move together with every swing. The cheapest way into impact play in our whole range.
Bound to You Faux Leather Small Spanking Paddle, £29.99
Two sides to choose from, a smooth faux leather side for a crisp, audible spank and a soft furry side for a gentler alternative on the same paddle.
Sweet Anticipation Riding Crop, £29.99
A flexible shaft built for controlled, precise impact rather than the broader contact area of a paddle or flogger, a genuinely different sensation worth trying if you already know you like impact play.
Sensory play
Sweet Anticipation Reversible Faux Leather Blindfold, £14.99
Designed for full blackout so the rest of your senses take over, softly padded rather than a plain strip of fabric. One of the easiest, lowest commitment ways to add something new to a session.
Tease Feather Tickler, £13.99
Built for light touch sensation and slow anticipation rather than impact, trail it over skin to build tension before moving on to anything else. Pairs naturally with a blindfold, since removing sight makes light touch feel considerably more intense.
Nipple and clitoral clamps
Nothing but Sensation Nipple Suckers, £11.99
A gentle vacuum builds with a simple squeeze and release, the mildest of our three nipple and clit clamp options and the sensible starting point.
At My Mercy Chained Nipple Clamps, £16.99
Built for more intense nipple play, with a weighted chain adding a steady, deliberate pull rather than a fixed pinch alone.
Just Sensation Beaded Clitoral Clamp, £12.99
Slides into place for a gentle, steady squeeze, with weighted beads adding subtle movement and tension throughout wear.
A couple of extras
The I Want You Now Steel Love Ring, £19.99, is a simple, weighty metal cock ring that crosses over neatly with a bondage session if firmer, more locked in sensation is part of what you are after. And the Play Nice Role Play Dice, £14.99, takes the pressure off deciding what happens next mid scene, roll for a location, a body part, and an action, then follow wherever it lands.
Starting bondage gear safely
Agree on a safe word before anything else happens, ideally one that has nothing to do with the scene itself so there is no ambiguity in the moment. Start with restraints or impact play separately rather than combining everything on a first attempt, so you can gauge your own and your partner's reaction to each element individually. Keep something nearby that can quickly release a restraint if needed, most cuffs and kits above are designed with quick release built in specifically for this reason. Check in during and after, not just before, since reactions can shift partway through a scene.
Why buy your bondage gear from Lormi
Every order ships in plain packaging with nothing to suggest what is inside, even to someone checking a delivery. Orders over £25 get free UK next day delivery, and Love Points build up automatically on every purchase. Browse our full bondage and BDSM range directly, or see whips and paddles and blindfolds as their own dedicated collections if you know exactly what type you are after.
Frequently asked questions
What is the safest way to start with bondage gear?
Agree a safe word first, start with one element at a time rather than combining restraints and impact play together on a first attempt, and keep a quick release option within reach throughout.
Do I need a full kit to try bondage, or can I start with one item?
You can absolutely start with one item. A blindfold or a single pair of cuffs is a low commitment way to see whether bondage play appeals to you before spending more.
What is the difference between a flogger and a paddle?
A flogger has multiple fronds and spreads impact across a wider area with each swing. A paddle delivers a single, more concentrated, usually louder impact per strike. Many people prefer one distinctly over the other.
Is a chained nipple clamp too intense for a first try?
It can be more intense than a simple nipple sucker, so if you are new to nipple play, start with the milder suction style Nothing but Sensation suckers before moving up to a clamp with added weight.
How do I bring up trying bondage gear with a partner?
Directly and outside the bedroom tends to work best, framing it as something you are curious to explore together rather than springing it as a surprise. Starting with a low commitment item like a blindfold is often an easier first conversation than restraints or impact play.
